Hi y ¡Hola! I’m Dr. Lacey and welcome to my space.
Meet Dr. Lacey, a trauma informed therapist specializing in identity development / exploration, anxiety, depression, teenage struggles, and more.
If you are looking for an authentic human being, you’ve come to the right place.
I am currently serving adults, young adults, and teenagers in the East Bay Area and throughout CA via telehealth.
I'm Dr. Lacey Xepoleas, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY35430) with over 8 years of experience in various mental health settings, including 6 years of doctoral training. I have worked in many settings, including elementary schools, University Counseling, substance use treatment facilities, and case management. I practice from a Humanistic, affirming, open perspective and do not believe in “fixing” anyone, as I believe no one is “broken.”
If you are curious, my last name is pronounced EX-UH-POH-LEE-US (with a hard X). You are welcome to call me Dr. Lacey, Lacey, or Dr. Xepoleas if you feel so inclined.
As a clinician with many intersecting identities (including being bi-racial, identifying as bi-sexual, and having grown up with a visual impairment), I’m passionate about creating a safe, welcoming space where you can explore your unique identity and experiences.
All are welcome in my space.
Please know, if I do not have experience working with your unique identities, I will do my best to meet your needs and / or find someone who can serve you better than I can.
I offer services primarily in English with a little Spanglish mixed in as needed. One day, I hope to offer services in Spanish as a fluent Spanish speaking individual!
Want to know more about me?
“Hold on...If love is the answer, you’re home.”
One of the most important things to know about me is that I genuinely believe in practicing what I ask of my clients. I attend therapy myself and regularly explore my own growth and challenges. If I’m encouraging you to go deeper and embrace discomfort, know that I’m right there with you, doing the same work.
Outside of the office, I love reading (fiction only, no self-help!), listening to music 24/7, spending time with my dog Lani, and hitting the trails on my mountain bike. I’m passionate about outdoor adventures—camping, hiking, and backpacking are some of my favorite activities. Cooking and trying new recipes also bring me joy.
I currently live in the San Francisco Bay Area with my partner and Lani, my border collie mix. You might spot me at Trader Joe’s or out on a trail enjoying nature!
*You can find some quotes from favored artists of mine throughout the website!